In the world of love, there are always some traces of rain and wind blowing. They have experienced vigorous and violent events. In the face of excessive separation and integration, they may end up fighting alone.
Never willing to be single, endure, wait, lose, but never give up, seriously do their own.
Because I firmly believe that one day, I will meet the only soul in the world.
Miss, just to meet better
"You stand on the bridge to see the scenery, the people who see the scenery see you upstairs, the bright moon decorates your windows, you decorate other people's dreams."
Young Bian Zhilin fell in love with Zhang Chonghe, the last talented woman in the Republic of China. He has spent twenty years in this love.
Standing on the broken bridge in the south of the Yangtze River to see the scenery, but for no reason intruded into other people's love network. Bian Zhilin's feelings towards Zhang Chonghe condensed into poems after she missed them and could never go back.
Fortunately, later he met the "love you alone once vicissitudes of life" of Qinglin, and found his only scenery.
Mr. Hu Shi said: You can't make my poems until you get drunk and know how strong you are; just like, I can't make your dreams.
Sometimes love is like this, some people, once missed, do not come back.
In the movie "We Are Later", we meet again in ten years. Zhou Dongyu said to Jing Bairan, "If you went to the subway then, I would follow you all my life."
One thought he would not go, and the other thought he would stay.
Inexplicable self-esteem and stubbornness, let two people walk away.
Which of us wasn't like this at the beginning. Only blame too young, do not know what is love.
Once a young maniac has become a memory, now do not disturb each other only for their own good.
We have cried, laughed, loved, hated and hurt. But one day, we can also say to ourselves with a smile: "I'm glad you can come, and I don't regret your leaving."
Thank you for the one who dared to love and hate. It's a pity to miss it, but maybe it's just for a better encounter.
Wait, give the rest of your life an account
Some netizens left a message asking, "30 years old, should we go to a marriage for the sake of our parents?"
I know that when she asks this question, the answer is clear, that is, it shouldn't be.
If she obeys her parents'wishes, she will always feel sorry for herself.
In the future, however, those who encounter some difficulties or disappointments and let them blame, I am afraid that the first thing is the unwanted marriage.
Successful marriages have tolerance, understanding, care and support, but never will.
However, in reality, how many people are in the admonition of others, slowly lose their self, and live in a state of embarrassment.
A colleague of the company has been blind date for a long time. We advised her not to be too selective. Her family advised her that her feelings could be cultivated slowly.
Only she herself insisted on her original idea: "I can't just find someone for a lifetime."
May you be true to yourself and live earnestly
Yeah, why let them love so casually? That's the love they value most, even more precious than life.
However, life is not friendly to them. The standard is too high, unrealistic, selfish and loving only themselves. Criticism flocked under the clothes of caring and loving.
Others are just looking at their "nitpicking" with a critical eye. Who really cares about their happiness?
Fortunately, they always stick to their positions, just like friends.
"The reason why I insist and don't want to give up is that I still have a glimmer of hope for love, so I can wait."
Shu Chunshu said, "No one likes loneliness, but they don't like disappointment."
In the high-pressure reality of life, they believe in love while choosing loneliness.
Until one day, there was a man coming with seven colorful auspicious clouds.
Leave, give up is just a moment
Some time ago, a friend told me that she was divorced when her child was over one year old.
She and her ex-husband are classmates of junior and senior high school. They have known each other for at least 15 years.
When I asked her why she got divorced, she said, "I can't stand it" without thinking about it.
After marriage, all the things in the family are covered by friends. After giving birth to a child, she suddenly felt unable to cope with it. She lived in a busy life all day, and her ex-husband could not count on it at all.
Because of trifles, they quarreled many times. Until one day, a friend said, "I feel very strange, strange and terrible, there may be no love between us."
It is not the last straw that crushes the camel, but the countless silent relative disappointments behind it.
I didn't feel sorry for my friend, nor did I try to comfort her. She's doing well alone with her children, and that's enough.
Gao Xiaosong once shared his view of love. He confessed that:
"When you are young, you will feel that love is more important than life. Slowly in this world for a long time, will feel that life is more important than love, what kind of person you will become more important. What is a good feeling is that we all become better ourselves."
It's just a passer-by who can't be expected to return.
From the dead sea and rotten rocks to the perfunctory circles of the future, it is necessary to simply refuse today.
Take a step back, it will be the vast sea and sky; furthermore, it may be the dark willows and bright willows.
May you be true to yourself and live earnestly
Stick to, Live Your Best Self
I know there's a discussion on this topic: "Are you worried about being single forever?"
Among them, there is a highly praised answer:
"Envy others, go home and have dinner together, share the results, hug when tired, and not be lonely in the dead of night. But I believe I will never be single. I'm trying to get better. How can such a girl be single?
Life is like this, not as good as you think, but not so bad.
As Liu Tong wrote in your loneliness is still glorious in defeat:
"Maybe you are still working alone, taking the subway alone, going upstairs alone, eating alone, sleeping alone; however, you can work alone, taking the subway alone, going upstairs alone, eating alone, sleeping alone. Many people leave another person without themselves. And you spent it all alone."
In fact, you are very good now.
Even when you are fragile, a word can bring tears to your face, but you will find that you have gone a long way with your teeth bitten.
So, no matter what life is like, always face it with a smile.
Even if the heart is hurt, it is also the place where the sun takes care of the entrance.
Even if a person, but the world has me, is enough lively.
If one day you can meet, tell him with the best of your own: "I've been waiting for you for a long time."
If you don't see it, just walk by alone.
May there be a thousand sparks in your eyes that will live up to what you want.